Have you ever realized you are self-sabotaging your road to success by holding yourself back and not taking steps to achieve your goals and dreams? And, be successful? When you look at your life, is it everything you dreamed of? Is there anything about your reality that you don’t like?
New Year is upon us, and some of us wish we were in the days of not worrying about coronavirus, looking in our closet, and thinking you have nothing to wear. Therefore, I stand in my closet for 30 minutes, hoping for some inspiration to jump out at me. Hoping for one of my dresses, shirts, jeans, sweaters to scream, “Hey, wear me today!”
Question: Do you think people need to be more mindful of everyone’s feelings and our own as we walk on our journey of self-discovery? Have you ever been all over the place, too worried about tomorrow? You’re so concerned about tomorrow that you cannot enjoy the little moments in your life each day. You are here, but you are not here.
Have you ever just sat down and taken a moment and realized that you made some bad decisions because you are at a point in your life that’s not becoming of you, making you feel like you failed? Our overview of what’s happening is right in front of us, and it’s also what’s not. We should be taking a grand overview of the entire picture.
If could have a conversation with one of your ancestors, what would you say? One of my questions will be, “Do you have options?” and, then I will explain what I mean by options. Have you created enough opportunities for yourself that allow you to survive regardless of what goes on around you? This is the question I have to ask myself as I look around my home environment. Have I created enough options for myself and my family to use to their advantage down the line? Because life is already hard and full of politics with a slew of people with money on the brain 247, think about it!
They say sometimes “it takes a village,” even if you don’t think so because you define yourself as a loner, but the truth is there is purpose in everyone you meet. Someway or somehow, they are aiding you on your self-discovery journey. You are learning your tolerance level, likes, dislikes, wants, needs, strengths, and weaknesses as you interact and communicate with each other. So, don’t be mad when things don’t work out with certain people because their time in your life is over.