Yes, I can admit that I am guilty of career drifting. It is easy to find yourself as a career drifter when you are young, trying to find your way. When I started working, trying to get office experience, I worked temp for various jobs.
Have you realized when telling someone no, you are helping them? The other day, I told my friend no, I would not do the work she wanted me to do because she didn’t want to do it. It is not like she couldn’t do it, she was feeling lazy, but because she knew I was good at certain things, she tried her best to convince me to do her work.
Have you ever realized you are self-sabotaging your road to success by holding yourself back and not taking steps to achieve your goals and dreams? And, be successful? When you look at your life, is it everything you dreamed of? Is there anything about your reality that you don’t like?
I laugh at myself because I know better when I think about all the excuses I have used over the past years and other people’s excuses. But we do it anyway out of fear. Nothing gets done when you make excuses. When nothing is done, no one benefits.
Truth be told, I’ve been in the same position far too long. Have you ever woken up and felt like this, and like nothing is changing in your life? But when I look at some of my habits, I relative changing my habits is imperative to changing my life.
We all have this imposter living inside of us, holding us back when we need to kick it to the curb. This imposter syndrome gives you self-doubt and feeling of inadequacy. Have you ever told yourself you are not good enough or talked yourself out of doing something
Can I ask you a question, how invested are you in your self-betterment? Many of us are trying to be a better version of themselves. We want to invest in ourselves, LEVEL UP, as Ciara would say. But, there are a lot of misconceptions out there about investing in ourselves.
They say to be more effortless, but I am tired! We all experience tiredness and days we don’t want to do anything. We don’t even want to put any effort into doing anything because of how tired we are. I would take a power nap or rest, then return to work.
Last weekend, when I went to parent-teacher conferences, one of the teachers said they grade on effort. Yes, I was confused because I remember when I was in high school, I wanted to know the right answer. They weren’t grading on effort, but this is 2023.
Where are you on your self-discovery journey? Have you ever encountered someone who unknowingly made you aware that you must be comfortable with yourself? There is no reason to justify or explain why you are the way you are. For example, I might not be all
I’ve been journaling for a while now. I picked up and started to do it to get things off my chest. I started writing a letter to GOD about the bible and other things in my life. I don’t write in it every day as I should, but I noticed that when it does, it clears my mind because I am an overthinker, and it gets rid of the confusion that might linger around.
Sometimes with taking care of family, it’s better to do it yourself. I’ve been working as a caregiver (working for your family member for an agency like FreedomCare and getting paid) since December 2020. During this time, I’ve been wondering what I will do after this.
Have you ever wondered why qualified people are only allowed in the broad room? They were teachable. They have certain skills and experience, and someone gave them a chance, and they kept improving on the skills they developed.
When I used to write my goals, I would write about where I want to be five years from now, which is my long-term goal. And I list things I could do now that take less time to accomplish in my short-term list. Which is okay, and I start. At least I would goal-setting.
There is a turning point in life, which is fully understanding that “Shit happens.” Yes, it does in life and business, and you must adapt. Your adaptability skills are one of the extremely vital skills for a person to develop and maintain throughout their career.
Did you know to succeed in business, you have to think about the timing of starting a business? When I started my business, I should have considered if it was the right time to start a business, and I just jumped right into it. No plan! No money!
Have you ever just sat and just read? Sometimes, if the book is good, it can take you to the character’s world, where you don’t want to leave. It’s an escape for you. Albert Einstein states, “I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.
What is your definition of success? This is a question I asked one of my clients because many of us think of success as the tangible things we desire. I will succeed when I get the car, the house, or that dream job.
I was talking to a friend recently and noticed my actions at times when I am trying to be productive. A friend realized that she procrastinates when she doesn’t know her next step. It made me think about why I stopped writing or working on a particular project, and she was right.
Have you ever gotten the “uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh” when talking to someone with the head nod?” You are left wondering if anybody comprehends what you were saying. Or, have you ever done it and walked away, not learning anything?
New Year is upon us, and some of us wish we were in the days of not worrying about coronavirus, looking in our closet, and thinking you have nothing to wear. Therefore, I stand in my closet for 30 minutes, hoping for some inspiration to jump out at me. Hoping for one of my dresses, shirts, jeans, sweaters to scream, “Hey, wear me today!”
Being positive is about changing the mindset to find the positive in every situation and stay on that path. And lastly, it’s a choice you are choosing to make. It’s changing the habits that you find yourself doing and not doing. It’s about the way you talk to people and the way you speak to yourself.
The question of the day is, how open-minded are you? Verywellmind.com defines open-mindedness as “how willing people are to consider other perspectives to try out new experiences,” But did you know being open-minded is necessary for figuring out who you are?
We all know that what makes you happy might not make me happy. For whatever reason, having a smile on your face allows you to think pleasant thoughts. You have a glow that radiates off you, and your energy is inviting. Sometimes all it takes to be happy is knowing you have a second chance to get it right.
We are in the want season! I want this, and I want that! It is not anything different than your wants on any other day. It’s just heightened to 100% right now because it’s the holiday season. We don’t see the value in the things we didn’t want.
Question: Do you think people need to be more mindful of everyone’s feelings and our own as we walk on our journey of self-discovery? Have you ever been all over the place, too worried about tomorrow? You’re so concerned about tomorrow that you cannot enjoy the little moments in your life each day. You are here, but you are not here.
Do you really want to pretend it didn’t happen? I would rather be that old couple you see on your walk, holding hands, do you wish for that? I love the commercial with the young woman walking up to her prom date, dancing to some oldie but goodie song, and then it flashes to the next scene, and they are asking Alexa to play their song, and they are still dancing together in their house to that same old song.