We are in the want season! I want this, and I want that! It is not anything different than your wants on any other day. It’s just heightened to 100% right now because it’s the holiday season. We don’t see the value in the things we didn’t want.
Have someone asked you what your values are? I can’t even remember the last time I was asked that question. According to mind tools, “Your values are the things that you believe are important in the way you live and work.” But life is not always easy.